When Boundaries Become Love Blocks
Newborn babies have little sense of “self.” Their experience of this new world is one of an intrinsically felt connection to everything. They do not identify as “I am me” and “you are you”—they are not separate from their experience of life itself And as they grow they begin to realize that they are unique […]
Igniting the passion
“You can’t start a fire without a spark” is my favourite line in Bruce Springsteen’s “Dancing in the Dark,” as it is so true when it comes to passionate play In my work with couples, the most common complaint is that their sex life is dampened, and has become rather boring and infrequent. They remember […]
The drugs love in made of
Candlelight. Soft music. Foot massages. Kissing. (Or just a quick romp in bed before the kids get home from school.) Foreplay and consensual sex take many forms, but they have one thing in common: sex really is a drug. The health benefits of sex are well documented for the feel-good sensation caused by the release […]